愈去學習,愈是發現自己的無知
人與人,價值觀之不同, 如何能有同一觀點,去完成一件事情?
我認為93元買一本有500多頁, 又登上new york時報 的小說, 是十分值得
但, 我最親的父親卻不是這樣認同,
我開始覺得彼此的距離遠了
不單是他, 我更加發覺自己和身邊一直以為最close的人,正在把對方推出自己的圈子外
因為價值觀不同, 因此好像不是同一陣線, 安全感少了
自我防禦系統啟動,使這個世界只有自己一個
一個人, 是最完美的
說到底,.人際關係是人類生存中最煩人,最討厭, 最阻礙自己發展的一頭怪獸
永遠猜不到對方的心意到底是怎樣
看! 情侶有多少對不是因為捉摸對方的心理, 繼而吵大架,最後分手收場?
朋友, 有多少個不是因為不徹徹底底了解對方, 而做了對方討厭的事,而鬧絕交?
父母興子女不是因為溝通出現問題, 沒有一方肯無私的不斷讓步, 然後鬧出悲劇?
如果這世界,是有自己一個
do whatever you want ,
do what you like and without any consider others
no need to worry someone will feel discontent when you do something you like
no need to worry someone will punish you and you cry for whole night
it's so perfect, wonderful, isn't it?
How come people love to restrain us?
it is because they have been restrained? so they revenge on us?
would you think that is absolutely unfair?
But unfortunately, there's no one shout it out, no one object
Everyone choose to obey what people told them to do
people afraid of scolding, punishing
Including me, i've choosed to obey
because everything are on rule
if you against the rule, all of them not just bully you, is isolate you
NOTHING come more painful than this feeling
No one love to be the one that is isolated
SO, just keep dreaming,
In this world , we can't do anything without considering others
Because of the awful consequence
NO ONE CAN WITHSTAND ...